I usually check the obituaries every morning before I go to the church. I want to see if there is anyone listed who could be connected to a member of my congregation so I can be what they call proactive if that happens. Some obituaries are long and filled with all sorts of details of the person’s life. Others are short on information. But all of them mention the people who are grieving the impact of the death of a loved one on their lives.
One of the things I’ve noticed over the years is the decline in the number of people with a church affiliation. We used to at least see that someone was “of the Protestant faith”, but now we don’t even see that. Instead all we find are that they were alive and did stuff, now they’re dead and we’ll have a party to talk about them. It practically breaks my heart to see how many people are going to spend their eternity outside the presence of God–frankly, in hell.
When I perform a funeral (and I only perform funerals–never life celebrations) my sermon is always an evangelistic sermon. I know that there is almost always someone in front of me who does not know Jesus as their Lord and Savior and at least on that day they’re going to hear the Gospel. As someone else wrote recently, a funeral is not about the deceased and it’s not about those who remain–it’s about Jesus and His substitutionary death on the Cross and His resurrection from the grave, the first among many. If I know the deceased was a believer we’ll close the service singing Victory in Jesus.
What do you want your obituary to say to the world about you? Do you want it to recount your successes in this life? Maybe you want it to say how much you loved your family or your dog and how much you liked playing golf or bingo. I guess an obituary can have many things in it without going over the top. But I pray that the one thing it will say to the world is that you confessed with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believed in your heart that God raised Him from the dead that you might be saved unto eternity.